365MM Posted February 23, 2021 Share Posted February 23, 2021 15 hours ago, Cypher said: Over time, with the block feature, I've been able to stop viewing the user's writing, but it does show up as quoted text. While I've largely been able to overlook what's written, I do see the impacts it has on the forum as a whole. Despite attempts to reach out, offer material the user has asked for, etc, I've been met with brash and hostile responses. At the end of the day, I do hope/believe all users want to do their best to adhere to generally accepted behaviour, which in my eyes, is offered as a range to accommodate many varying personality types. Are there users on here that get on my nerves? Yeah, absolutely, but I can recognize when it's a "me problem." There's different personalities and then there's flagrant disregard. We have some amazing members here who have been here for years and some really cool new members that are just lovely additions. I would hate for the actions of one to drive away the great and unique individuals who come through the forum. We're here because we love music, we love the artists, and we want to support each other's work (self-recordings, fan-made artwork, etc.). While I can see why, @Skinny Legend, you want to take time to consider this action, I do believe this isolated case of banning a user is the right decision.. I believe this would be a great example of how members in this community want a positive experience on the forum and not have to deal with one very vocal heckler attacking their favourite artists, or worse, attacking them personally. There are other music forums out there where this type of behaviour is probably more accepted/unregulated, but I think quite highly of the community at PHF, which is why I've chosen to stay here as long as I have. Very thoughtful response! I’ve not been personally involved in the drama, but I have come across it in several topics. It’s not productive or representative of everyone else. Makes those threads hard to engage with pleasantly. ? 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twoAM Posted February 23, 2021 Share Posted February 23, 2021 (edited) Yes, yes, and yes I’m pretty sure they were given multiple warnings but they continue to be toxic and I feel like it makes people uncomfortable so please yes Edited February 23, 2021 by twoAM 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Main Pop Girl Posted February 24, 2021 Author Share Posted February 24, 2021 4 5 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goedert Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 6 hours ago, Skinny Legend said: he is banned ? and the alt ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heartbreak Anthem Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 Bye Joan. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Main Pop Girl Posted February 24, 2021 Author Share Posted February 24, 2021 2 hours ago, Goedert said: he is banned ? and the alt ? 4 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice Prince Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 OMG thank you for intervening, queen! 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Volcanion Posted March 8, 2021 Share Posted March 8, 2021 I never thought I would live to see such an iconic day in Gay History. Queen @Skinny Legend giving us life. 1 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
808Dream Posted May 10, 2021 Share Posted May 10, 2021 the evil is NOT defeated, yet... 1 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Main Pop Girl Posted May 12, 2021 Author Share Posted May 12, 2021 On 5/10/2021 at 5:34 PM, 808Dream said: the evil is NOT defeated, yet... Since when is Joan a Steps fan? I don't think they're the same tbh... 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice Prince Posted May 12, 2021 Share Posted May 12, 2021 39 minutes ago, Skinny Legend said: Since when is Joan a Steps fan? I don't think they're the same tbh... Me neither, but the behaviours are incredibly similar in terms of not attending directions lol. But the new user is not harsh. It's most likely a completely different person - and I'm grateful for it. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Cypher Posted May 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted May 12, 2021 Tbh, I don't have a major issue since aside from annoyance, there's no hostile behaviour. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post B.W.O Posted May 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted May 12, 2021 44 minutes ago, Cypher said: Tbh, I don't have a major issue since aside from annoyance, there's no hostile behaviour. It won’t happen again I apologise for any inconvenience caused. I just got over excited and carried away. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cypher Posted May 12, 2021 Share Posted May 12, 2021 (edited) 10 minutes ago, tajd said: It won’t happen again I apologise for any inconvenience caused. I just got over excited and carried away. I think it's great you had a group you love; we all have our favourites and we all get carried away time to time. But as with everyone, let's help each other get/stay on the same page to keep this place a positive experience. (not talking about the world of trading/selling. That shit can't be helped) Edited May 12, 2021 by Cypher 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mall Shopping Posted May 13, 2021 Share Posted May 13, 2021 10 hours ago, tajd said: It won’t happen again I apologise for any inconvenience caused. I just got over excited and carried away. Apologize for what? You're Joan? Not yet another alt 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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