I feel affected in the same way by the same member.
They only wind down the dial to later come back out of the blue with an unexpected vengeance.
It is absolutely crazy behaviour and they are a total buzzkill.
The fact this thread exists suggests we can’t be the only two people affected by them. Blocking him doesn’t totally work. I wish we did not have to deal with the individual anymore, but sadly it appears we do.
I did not want to be too critical of them in the past because I felt they were displaying clear characteristics that are suggestive of someone diagnosed with a certain kind of behavioural disorder.
However, their whining, boasting and general negativity is becoming a pain in the ass that never ends and it is getting hard to be delicate about the matter.
Ultimately, we are a community of pop music lovers and not necessarily medically qualified professionals who are equipped to deal with sporadic outbursts of psychodrama and insane paranoia at the whim of another member.