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    “I don’t know her.” It was the throwaway sentence - delivered with seeming sincerity, a simpering smile and an innocent nod of the head that was either sarcastic or supportive depending on interpretation - that went on to become one of the Internet’s first real memes. Mariah Carey’s simple proclamation, in response to an interviewer's question about Jennifer Lopez, is one of the finest textbook definitions of shade that anyone could ever hope to find. And yet, behind those four words is a world of pain, heartbreak and jealousy that most people know nothing about. It’s a world that reads like something straight out of a telenovela, populated by characters like a long-suffering wife, a controlling patriarch, and a young ingenue who tears them apart. This is the real story behind the infamous Mariah Carey and Jennifer Lopez feud. Our story starts with an 18 year old Mariah Carey, who with her classically trained operatic voice and long tousled curls had big dreams of being a superstar. In 1988, Carey found her way into a record label executive's gala, where she handed her Ben Margulies-produced demo tape over to the head of Sony Records Tommy Mottola. Carey and Margulies would later go on to have a meeting with Mottola, who, believing that Margulies was Carey’s boyfriend, made it his mission to push him out of the picture as he signed her to a $350 000 recording deal for ten albums. Mottola quickly took a large hand in Carey’s career, to the extent that it was said that the two were barely ever seen without each other. Later in life, Mottola would admit that he was “obsessive” when it came to Carey, but with the caveat that “that was the reason for her success”. Rumours of a romance began to fly about the 39 year old married man and his 18 year old muse, and it wasn’t long before they were proven to be true; Mottola proposed Carey in 1992, two years after her first album release and only shortly after the dissolution of his nineteen year marriage. Carey and Mottola at their $500 000 wedding ceremony in 2003 Sadly, the marriage was not to be a happy one. Carey suffered from non-stop reports of favouritism, with more than one reporter suggesting that she had married Mottola only for his connections. Even more troubling was the fact that Carey, who had never been in a serious relationship prior to Mottola, was facing emotional abuse almost daily by her husband that left her "miserable, crying, and alone" and dreaming that someone would "kidnap" her. Carey would later recount that she was forced to remain "sequestered" from the outside world by Mottola, and that she had to "get permission to leave" the house. “He didn't even know why I always had my bag with me,” she would say years later. “But in my mind I thought, 'If something jumps off...I'm ready.'” Although Carey finally managed to escape her marriage to Mottola in 1997, that wouldn’t be the end of their relationship. After all, Mottola was head of Sony Records, and still wielded great power over her career. After some conflict over the direction Carey's career would take, Butterfly was released in late 1997, introducing the sexy image and breathy vocals that would become her signature in later years. But by the time Rainbow - the last album Carey would record for Sony - was released in 1999, her relationship with the label had completely deteriorated. The label wanted a big pop song to be released as the third single to heat up the lukewarm radio play for the album, but fittingly Mariah wanted 'Can't Take That Away (Mariah's Theme)' - a ballad about finding your inner strength based on her seperation from Mottola - to be released instead. She told her fans about the dispute and instructed they request the song on radio to force Sony into an official release, which they eventually did only half heartedly and with a limited promotional budget. Carey would soon sign a record-breaking $100 million contract with EMI, but money couldn’t buy her happiness. By 2001, Carey had begun work on a semi-autobiographical film called Glitter, and the film and it’s accompanying soundtrack had created a workload that she couldn’t sustain. After breaking up with her boyfriend of three years Luis Miguel, Carey began posting disturbing voice messages on her official website announcing that she would quit music. An erratic appearance on Total Request Live in which Carey handed out ice cream and performed a striptease for Carson Daly did nothing to help her public image. And meanwhile, Mottola back at Sony was doing everything he could to destroy her. Mottola had first discovered Jennifer Lopez in 1997, when she was fresh off the heels of her star turn in Selena and sending Spanish-language demos to various record labels. By this point, Mottola had recently separated from Carey, and it seemed his self-proclaimed “obsession” with her had been transferred to Lopez. Mottola sent J. Lo to the top of the charts with On the 6 and the international smash hit 'Waiting for Tonight', but he wasn’t done yet. Lopez’s sophomore album J. Lo was released in 2001, and it featured a song entitled ‘I’m Real’. The song sampled Yellow Magic Orchestra’s ‘Firecracker’ - a song which strangely hadn’t been requested for sample at all up until three weeks before it's recording, when Mariah Carey had requested to use it for her song ‘Loverboy’. Irv Gotti would later go on to confirm that this was a deliberate ploy by Tommy Mottola to sabotage Carey’s ‘Loverboy’ release, which was already scheduled to be the first single from the Glitter soundtrack and an instrumental part of the film itself. Unable to reshoot the scenes containing 'Loverboy', Mariah scrambled to find a new sample to base it on, settling on Cameo’s ‘Candy’. However, she would go on to release a single remix of 'Loverboy' with Da Brat which utilised ‘Firecracker’ heavily, with Da Brat rapping, “Hate on me much as you want to/You can't do what the fuck I do/Bitches be emulating me daily.” This wasn’t the only way in which Mottola undercut Mariah’s Glitter campaign. Mariah had recorded a track called ‘If We’ for the project with Ja Rule, which was his first foray into R&B. Irv Gotti would later recall that shortly after the record was finished, he was contacted by Mottola “obscenely early” in the morning and instructed to make a collaboration for Jennifer and Ja Rule "in the same style" of 'If We'. “He calls me because he found out that me and [Ja] Rule cut a record with Mariah Carey,” Gotti would later say. “And at the time he hated Mariah Carey. So he was pumping Jennifer Lopez to compete.” Mottola even loaned Gotti the company jet to ensure that Ja Rule, who was on tour at the time, would be able to film scenes for the music video for this collaboration. Gotti worked with Ashanti and Ja Rule to craft ‘I’m Real (Murder Remix)’, which was released shortly after to huge success and which sounded more than a little similar to ‘If We’. While J. Lo topped charts, Mariah began a downward spiral which started with the lukewarm reception to ‘Loverboy’ and only continued when Glitter was released on September 11th, 2001 (yes, that September 11). Matters only got worse when her father, who she had had little contact with since childhood, died of cancer, and she was bought out of her contract with EMI for $50 million. Despite this, Carey didn’t speak about the situation between her, Mottola and Lopez publicly until some time later. Speaking to MTV about the ‘Firecracker’ fiasco in 2002, Carey stated “Let's just say they did me a favor. And they know who they are. And thank you, sweetie. And your friend who did it with you!" The infamous “I don’t know her” remark wasn’t uttered until an interview on the shoot of 'Bringin' on the Heartbreak' in 2003, when Carey had clearly moved from bitterness onto pettiness; and since then it’s been reiterated many times in many different ways. Which leaves us wondering: will this story ever have a happy ending for Carey and Lopez? Carey’s annoyance towards her manipulative ex-husband’s new plaything was understandable at the time, but this many years on it seems obvious that Lopez was only a pawn in Mottola’s game, and that he was the only one to blame for her career downfall. Lopez, who for her part has alternated between supportive and shady when asked about Mariah, is still on top years later, and we’re sure that Mariah could use some girl power to help her image recover from that New Year’s Eve fiasco. Here’s hoping that in the age of #MeToo and #TimesUp, the two will someday put this feud to rest and come out with an anti-Mottola duet of their own. ‘I Never Knew Him’, perhaps?
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    No lmao i’m just a person who search for Melanie unreleased to get Ariana stuff 😂
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    Does anyone have Melanie unreleased songs?
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    We stan a woke black queen! THIS IS THE 90S!
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    Honestly I don't know if they're still freindly or not because their relationship seems to be very up and down, but I hope that they'll be able to reconnect after this and be a comfort to each other!
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    They should totally do it, neither of them have anything to lose! I can totally imagine them slaying something like Mariah's 'Meteorite' together.
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    I think that’s the first time I actually enjoyed reading something Mariah Carey related. Still don’t like her attitude but I’m glad I got to read about how fucked up this industry can be sometimes and for once she wasn’t the one to blame.
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    Mariah & Jennifer collab would bop off without a doubt. That smottola definitely A No No.
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    Season 4 of Drag Race All Stars has been officially confirmed for release on December 14th, and the cast has been announced! Judging by the queens we have this is shaping up to be a great season, as there isn't really anyone I dislike on here. Most of all I'm excited to see Jasmine and Gia, although I'm hoping Valentina and Farrah will bring the drama as well. I still wish we could get some fan faves like Laganja in a season instead of Manila for the third time, but what can you do? Who are you guys excited to see and who do y'all think is gonna snatch the crown?
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    Carly Rae Jepsen Party For One
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    Please leak songs by queen Sia. We will not have anything from her until february or march.
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    Can someone post the best quality of Camilla’s Scar Tissue they have? Still dying for it in the highest quality.
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    Kim Petras - Heart To Break
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    Nope. "Army of Angels" was supposed to appear on a rock follow-up to Love Is Dead, along with "Red Flags", "Stranger", "To Love Means to Let Go" and many others. I compiled them in a single album called Army of Angels indeed. The studio albums Kerli should have released by now are the following: Love Is Dead (released in 2008). Army of Angels (2009, unreleased. The project's title is unknown, but songs like "Army of Angels", "Red Flags", "Moonflower" and "Stranger" were intended for this Love Is Dead follow-up). I.Nimene (2010, unreleased. "When You Cry", "Scream", "All the Way", "I'll Find You" and "Leave It to the Rain" were intended for another project, most likely the so-called I.Nimene, which was shelved as well. The unleaked "Bubblegum" might have fitted in here, too). Weapons of Mass Creation (2011-2012, unreleased. Kerli stated that she had a lot of songs that fitted with the weaponry theme, hence "Bullet", "Army of Love", "Blow the Speakers Up", "Lovebomb" and "Weapons of Mass Creation" definitely belonged to this project, before it was cancelled. The outtake "Dollface" is most likely from this project, rather than from Utopia). Utopia (2013, released as an EP. The whole thing leaked in December 2012, except for "I Was Made For Loving You", which might be circulating by now. We all hope it leaks soon. The rest of the album is leaked, and some of those songs were selected to be released in a 6-track extended play instead of a full-length album.) Untitled sixth album (2016, unreleased. Tentatively called Deepest Roots, the album included "Feral Hearts", "Blossom", "Diamond Hard" and "Spirit Animal", along with other song titles that were never released. I am 99% sure these four songs won't be included in the upcoming album because Kerli said through Instastories from the last week that she is shooting the music video for the lead single, indicating she has a new body of work, leaving out those four songs). Upcoming seventh/third album (2019, yet to be released. It is a completely new era, considered to be her third album by her fans since Utopia was intended to be the second one. I consider it to be the seventh because Kerli has enough material for it to be the seventh, but this last thing is just an adding of mine, not an official thing. I have all these albums in my library because of the massive leaks that Kerli's career has met since 2009-2010). Sorry for the long explanation, I just thought it would be interesting for you to know.
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    What's up with you people hating Melanie fans (I don't like the fandom that much) hating every person who ask for Melanie unreleased is too much
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    you could just google that and find out how simple it is https://9soundclouddownloader.com/
  20. 1 point
    Ashley Tisdale Voices In My Head
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    Kim Petras EP Two different covers couldn't decide on a photo
  22. 1 point
    The Hurting. The Healing. The Loving. Camila
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    I suppose she had to change the sentence because of her label, but idk

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